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Top Ten Reasons Why Miracles Don’t Happen for Us

Why Miracles Don't Happen for Us I have been thinking a lot about why sometime miracles don’t happen for us.

After observing almost 50 people (myself included), over 200 days, working on creating their own miracles, I set out to compile my own list of reasons for why sometime miracles don’t happen.  I asked my miracle maker team to get their input.



Here is what I/we got for you.

1. I didn’t ask.

Underneath that is a core belief that nothing is easy and miracles don’t exist. Somehow I opted out of the good things. Or I am too shy to ask, which ties to no. 7

2. I am attached to how it should look a certain way.

Therefore I can’t see the perfection and miracles that ARE happening. I doubt, I criticize, I rather be cynical instead of receiving and seeing.

3. I throw miracles away or I can’t receive or I shut my energetic door and block miracles from coming in.

With my cynicism, resentment, doubt, and just plain fear that it might work or it wouldn’t work, I resort to refusing to let any miracle in. The ability to receive is essential in miracle making process.  Also I secretly think I have to give up one thing in order to get to that other thing that I want.  The cost is too big for my little mind to grasp, so I refuse to make miracle.  I find ways to sabotage myself.

4. I am so needy, there is no space for miracle.

Sometime I am so needy and fill with anger, resentment, doubt, prove it to me sense…I think I am open for miracles but I am actually not. I have no room for a miracle to occur.

5. I actually don’t want it.

I say I wanted it, but really underneath, I actually don’t want it.  This one is tricky to see, because there are so much denial and/or blindness, I can’t see my own intention and motive most of the time.

6. I am too tired to take more in or I don’t have anymore capacity to make more miracles.

This one is a fun one, I have this one a lot.  So many miracles are happening, that I get overwhelmed and exhausted living and enjoying the miracles.  I have to pace myself.  This one is so interesting to me, because I feel like my spirit self is so ready for this and so much more, yet my human body can only keep up with this much.

7. I don’t deserve it (in the back of my mind)

Again this is the opt-out plan. I don’t know why I opted out.  And believe me I opted out a long time ago,  I just didn’t know it.  This comes from a very dark place of having a core belief that I am unworthy of love. This is human condition no. One: everybody somehow secretly believes that at the core we are not worthy of love. (Thanks Hans Kopp, one of our miracle practitioners for his contribution to this one)

8. I quit too soon

We spend our whole life practicing the same old behaviors, wondering why things are not working. But when we try a new thought, pattern, and behavior, we give it one day, or ten or 20-something days, and quit. We don’t trust. We get discouraged and lazy. So we quit too soon. (Thanks Claudia Castillo)

9. I Discount the miracle

“That’s not a miracle, it’s just life. Some good some bad.” I am oblivious. I wouldn’t know a miracle if it bit me in the butt. (Thanks Dawn Karner!)

10. I fall asleep on the process

This is very similar to item 8. but slightly different. Quitting too soon, at least is a conscious decision. “Hmmm I don’t trust this, it’s not working anyway, I quit.”  But falling asleep is much more subtle and unconscious. It’s like a frog in a boiling pot of water.  If you put the frog in hot water, it will jump out. But if you put it in cold water and slowly heat it up. It will die in there.  Because it couldn’t tell the temperature change. It’s body adjusts to the temperature increase and lulls it into a false comfort. (This one is for all of the miracle makers who quietly fade away and dropped their partners, and not say anything. They didn’t even give themselves a fighting chance of success)


Ooh I got a few late entries that are equally important so i am going to add them here.

11. Blaming the process or the community (to sabotage or avoid my own work)

“I don’t like this group, they whine too much. All they do is complain and complain about their life. Geez is this group therapy? I am flooded with emails. And why doesn’t the facilitator stop this? I am frustrated with that. I am out.” Ha! joke on me, i missed the point and the whole work. But I am vindicated. (Thanks Roy)

12.  It’s some kind of weakness to need miracles.

The macho, John Wayne syndrome: “I can do it myself ma’me.  Thank you very much!”


What more can I say?  None of these reasons are valid and should be honored.  But we do these things everyday and cheat ourselves out of an easier more loving and successful life.

If you identify yourself with some of these reasons, and want to shift out of this stuck mode, join us in our next round of miracle making.

We start next Saturday March 9th, 2013 at 9am PT on the 40 Days/40 Miracles bridgeline.  $49 buck, that is less than $2/day/miracle.

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Miracle Sighting #3: Random Money

This miracle sighting came from our miracle maker Michele Cronkhite…

Miracle Sighting #3: Random Money


“Can I share a miracle? I am still arranging to go on a retreat next month but haven’t been sure how I will pull the money together. My spouse is outraged that I would consider doing this. I set the intention that if I was meant to go the money would just show up for this trip somehow and not for anything else. Well, I rec’d a call today from the company hosting the retreat. A woman had a credit with them from a previous retreat and asked them to pay it forward to someone who needed it. $650 has been deducted from my amount owing. Still in shock but oh so grateful. :)”


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Miracle Sighting #1: Making Space for My New Man

40 Days 40 Miracles: “Now I’m Ready For my New Relationship.”

One of our 40 Days 40 Miracles (40/40) member reported on a miracle that she is receiving right now in her life, after having done the first round of 40/40 about two months ago.

On The Way To Manifesting My Dream Man…

by Carma Spence

Here’s a delayed miracle for you: I’ve been following a number of dating and relationship gurus because one of my goals is to find my life partner. One piece of advice I’ve been resisting is to make space for him in my home … clear a drawer, give him space on “his” side of the bed, etc.

I’ve used the excuse that I live in a tiny apartment and have lots of stuff for not doing it. But, as of today, I realize that what was really going on was I was not fully ready to be open to have a new man in my life.

I’m ready now.

Making space for my new man to come into my life.

A few days ago, I took the winter tops that filled one drawer and put them in a suitcase so that my man (whoever he ends up being) can have a drawer to keep his things in.Then, yesterday, I moved the AbLounge out of the bedroom, moved the bed further from the wall, and moved the clothes hanger to the side with more room. I even put a box on “his” side, covered it with a nice cloth and added a candle so he could have a “nightstand,” too.The reason behind this was to make it more inviting (and equal) for his side of the bed. He no longer has to crawl out on the tight short side of the bed, fighting with hanging clothes, or crawl over me to go to the bathroom at night. The room has been rearranged for two.But what resulted (and surprised the heck out of me) is this: I now love my bedroom. I actually want to spend time in it. It is so much more open and inviting for ME. Who cares about this future guy … I like my space better. Who would have thunk, eh?And another perk: No that the AbLounge is in front of the TV, I think I’ll actually use it for something other than a coat rack!

Carma’s sharing was originally posted on our private FB group.  With her permission, I am sharing her experience here, along with some of our comments to her post:
  • Lenora Cooper Mazol freaking tov! I also did this same process and found that I also liked my room and my space much better afterwards. While the person with whom I am now involved is not likely my life partner, it feels so good to me to have made room for him in my bed and in my life. Everything feels so much more spacious and welcoming.
  • Mai Vu For me this is not a delayed miracle but a miracle deeper than the miracle that you thought you want. You thought you wanted a man but you got something so much deeper, which is you got a relationship with yourself that you love. From there, you will attract the man or the men that will treat you like you treat yourself. wooohooo hurray, a bonus: two for one deal. and it wont make you fat!!!
  • Carma Spence Ha! I love it Mai.  A benefit that doesn’t make me fat. Kind of like coloring my hair in celebration of completing my book last weekend.
One point though … the word delay was used primarily as a way of conveying it happened after the group I participated in last time. All miracles happen in their own time, and so this happened in its perfect time. And I am sooooo loving my bedroom! ;-)Yes, it is a deeper miracle … and I am so grateful for the guy who inspired it. Whether we become an item or not is irrelevant. He was sent to me as a teacher and I am eagerly accepting the lessons I notice. I am a sponge. I am open and ready to receive and am actively (and inactively) releasing all the blocks I’ve nurtured over the years that block my receiving. I am grateful for the protection they gave me. But I am now ready to remove the training wheels and step fully into the life I was born to lead.I am like water and an open vessel for which the water to rest.

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