Looking back over the last decade, there is one thing that I am most grateful for, that once I figured it out, changed everything for me around relationships, love, and sex. That one thing was my new found wisdom to understand men.
Let’s start at the beginning, way back in Vietnam 1965. I grew up with a father who hit me for everything that my brother and I did. One time he struck me across my face for making a mistake on a math problem. The slap was so hard, my baby tooth flew out of my mouth, slid across the floor and was never found again. 🙁
As a result of that upbringing, my first exposure to men was that they were scary and unpredictable. Their anger and rage could come down on me anytime.
Then as a teenager, my mother “bestowed” her wisdom about men on me. It went something like this:
“There are two kinds of men, one group are rapists and the others are drunks. So you should avoid men, boys, and guys at all cost.”
Well Hello!!! It’s no surprise that my dating life was zero and men were super freaky and scary to deal with when I was younger. I was so scared, I only had sex with one man for the first 39 years of my life. He became my husband because he was reliable, kind, and I knew he would not hit me.
Not only did this faulty knowledge impact my dating life negatively, it also made me very afraid of men in the workplace. Unconsciously I was always afraid of doing something wrong in a man’s eyes because he might hit me! And if I were having a good relationship with a man, I found myself uncomfortable around him because I truly believed I might be forced to have sex with him.
Eeecck! Accck! Arggggg! Right?!!!
Fast forward to 10 years ago, I came to the realization that I wanted to learn about how relationships, love, sex, and men could be different than what I grew up with. I was done feeling disempowered around men. Through a series of well orchestrated events by my soul and the Universe, unbeknownst to my physical self, my marriage broke apart so that I could reclaim my understanding of myself and of men. I went on a personal PhD program on love, sex, and relationship. After 3 years and 33 men, I learned a ton of stuff about myself, AND about men: How they really work, and how us women can cultivate a much hotter (empowering) relationship with them.
I recently partnered with my collaborator Lucas Roy Lehman to bring you what we both know, how to understand men.
Trust me, watching a video series is way easier than the years I spent on my extensive self-guided quest. It was a very scary and confusing time for me. Often I wish I had someone to guide me.
And that’s why I’ve designed this video series for you. I’ve made the first video in the series free for you to watch.
So, are you ready to take this step towards understanding men?
Why this information is so important? Because you are constantly in relationship with men, from our father, to grandfather, brother, uncle, friends, boyfriends, husbands, sons, co-workers, teachers, and so on. They are here to serve and love you, IF YOU KNOW HOW TO WORK WITH THEM. If not these relationships will continue to confront, haunt, and hurt you. When you are confused about men, you will always feel overwhelmed with life, alone, unwanted, unappreciated, disempowered, needy, and overly responsible.
So if you are ready to finally understand men, what makes them tick and how you can have a hotter relationship with them, get on this program. This knowledge in turn will bring you so much joy, delight, pleasure, ease, deliciousness, safety, and success. Here are a few ways to start:
- Purchase the entire video series at my special subscribers price of $47(offer good through this Friday).
- Subscribe to my weekly online Hot Love Hot Life Hangout.
- Request a special invitation to my next 2-day live event in the Bay Area happening in March 2015 or Sweden in the late Spring 2015.
I look forward to being on this quest with you and giving you all that I have learned along the way.