Feel the Love

See what our community members are saying about their journey!

Denise B.

"Before Mai’s HotLifeHotLoveTM program, I was longing to find true love, thinking it was the missing piece that would fill the void in my heart. I was dating man after man hoping one would fall in love with me. It was exhausting; time consuming, and self-esteem destroying. Since joining HLHL, I no longer feel that void in my heart for I have fallen in love … with myself! The program taught me how to love myself in a way that no other program has ever remotely come close to. I have a love for myself that has filled me with true joy. I feel incredibly safe and secure in this world and with deep inner peace. I’m still dating but now it’s fun! I’m dating for me and only me. I no longer yearn for that true love for I have found it in myself. Thank you Mai and your beautiful community for giving me my life back. I cannot express the gratitude I have to now be able to live my life to follow my dreams!"

Pam P.

"From April (stressed, frustrated, and lifeless) to August (secure, confident, succulent) in 4 months. I was so exhausted and sad. I didn't know how to be happy and successful without killing myself or find the right person to have a fulfilling relationship with. I didn't want to be like my mother dying alone, drunk, with a broken heart.


In less than a year, I have caught my breath, manifested a great guy whom I now can travel the world with. Look at us go: beaches, hikes, vacations, roadtrips.


I am so elated. I know I wouldn't be where I am without this program. I know because I have tried them all. I am in love with myself and each member of HLHL!"

Shurvone W.

"When I started this journey with Mai, and the fantastic HotLifeHotLoveTM Team, I was desperate and in a dark place, ready to leave my marriage and kids. I didn’t know what to do with a marriage that became sexless, and filled with hurt and pain. Thanks to Mai’s program, I began looking at myself and have been able to accept myself and my husband and children for who they are and where they’re at. The healing of my raging peasant has helped me see my world in a different light. A heavy burden lifted off that had been present in our relationship for a long time of our relationship. We SAVED our marriage! I’ve let my husband back into my heart, we have found reconnection to our love, and are dating again, after 23 years of marriage!"

Annika I.

"After my divorce, I was trying to find love but only ended up in a series of bad relationships. My business and relationship with my children were also hurting. I was hungering for love, angry, self-judgmental and tired.


Today I’m in balance, full of energy, and confidently rebuilding my life. I have healed all of my relationships. I know that I am the one who decides what is right for me and am true to myself. I am dating a lovely man who loves, adores, and cherishes me.


I am forever grateful to Mai, her wisdom, commitment, and big heart. The 3Ps was the knowledge I needed to bring diginity and respect back into my life!


Look at me with my new man, whom I dare to be real, have honest conversations, and let him love, adore, and cherish me. Weeee!"

Christina W.

"I can feel a crack in his and my thick coconut shells, holding back from each other… Now we are holding hands, sitting together, kissing, cuddling, and having great sex. I am so grateful for the progress we have made in our marriage, in just four short months. I didn’t think we were going to make it, truly!!!"

Cosette C.

"I was the youngest in Mai's program. I had everything, a great husband, three kids, a career. On the surface I was doing better than average. But underneath I felt like I was drowning... drowning in all of my obligations, drowning in the high demand in my head to be perfect, drowning in self doubt. Mai, her 3Ps, and her community of supportive women, helped me redirect my head, became a better wife, mom, and daughter without taking on new guilt, new pressure to be perfect and allowed me to reach for more of me at work and in my relationship with my husband. I can't tell you how grateful I am. I think she might have saved us from that disastrous divorced mom outcome."

Linda L.

"Once I opened myself to Mai’s coaching, I began healing myself and my connection with men and dating. I learned so much about men and how they treat and want to treat a woman, and realized I could make it fun. I started enjoying my time meeting and talking with men, and asking for what I wanted from a place of choice rather than need. My communication came from a place of power instead of a place of pleasing. Honoring both and letting go of falling in love through sex, I connected with my inner power, guidance, and deep knowingness of how I wanted to step forward in my journey to intimate relationship. Thank you Mai for being an amazing teacher!!!"

Suzanne A.

"I went to my first Hot Life Hot Love weekend event in March 2015 and it changed my life. When I attended the event, I knew in my heart that Mai’s coaching program was just what I needed. I had started my own small business in September of 2013 and joined Mai’s life coaching program to help me grow my business in March 2015. Her honest and straightforward approach to life was the right fit for me. I was making on average $3-$5K per month. After working with her for a year, my business grew to $14K in a month and I hired 4 employees. Mai is a very smart, savvy, and creative coach that has guided me to change my life in a positive way. I did not realize that working with her on my business would open up my soul and help me grow as a human to love more, have peace, joy, and abundance in all areas of my life. It has also created more intimacy to have deeper relationships with all my loved ones. It’s the best gift I have given myself in a long time. I joined this program as an investment in myself and for my business but to my delight you also helped me make my relationship with my husband and sons a ton better too. It has been my college for improving my life and overall well being. Thank you Mai Vu."

Suzanne A.

"I went to my first Hot Life Hot Love weekend event in March 2015 and it changed my life. When I attended the event, I knew in my heart that Mai’s coaching program was just what I needed. I had started my own small business in September of 2013 and joined Mai’s life coaching program to help me grow my business in March 2015. Her honest and straightforward approach to life was the right fit for me. I was making on average $3-$5K per month. After working with her for a year, my business grew to $14K in a month and I hired 4 employees. Mai is a very smart, savvy, and creative coach that has guided me to change my life in a positive way. I did not realize that working with her on my business would open up my soul and help me grow as a human to love more, have peace, joy, and abundance in all areas of my life. It has also created more intimacy to have deeper relationships with all my loved ones. It’s the best gift I have given myself in a long time. I joined this program as an investment in myself and for my business but to my delight you also helped me make my relationship with my husband and sons a ton better too. It has been my college for improving my life and overall well being. Thank you Mai Vu."

Cindy R.

"I'm doing great. I live in a beautiful home with my man of 3 years. I feel very blessed to have him in my life. I have big changes this year with my career thanks to what Mai has taught me. Excited to be doing more of what I love! Mai has helped me create all of this and there is more to come. Thank you Mai!"

Staci S.

"I didn’t realize how I was functioning from desperation in all aspects of my life. I came from this desperate place of not enough: I am not enough, there is not enough men, nobody likes me, nobody sees me. I then was desperate to be loved, to be seen, to be appreciated, to be reassured … Therefore I couldn’t see what I wanted or how I wanted to be treated. It was such an awful feeling. My desperation probably had a smell, like stress sweat has a smell... I bet my desperation had a smell too. No wonder I attracted lousy men and struggled with my confidence and self worth. Through Mai’s powerful signature system, I broke my old patterns of desperation. I now date better men, have more fun, and to my delight I totally OWN and enjoy my new role of leadership at work. I am a completely new woman. I couldn’t be happier. I want everyone to know about this program and Mai."

Jennifer J.

"Mai, you helped me relax into my authentic self: trusting that I am worthy enough to be loved, adored, and cherished in business and in love. Before you, I had 2 marriages where I did everything to please my ex'es and my children. I lost myself and after the second marriage ended, i thought there went my happiness and great sex. Yup... i thought great sex was only available with husband #2. I became fearful of men and i did not trust myself to not lose myself in relationships again. So i resorted to working all the time. You held my hands and gently showed me how to heal and reclaim who I am and that I can trust men and myself again. AND you helped me see that great sex is repeatable with more than one person. Yahooo! You ROCK Biatch!!!! I love and appreciate you more than words can say."

Venus and Andy S.

"I have a lot to thank you for, Mai. Were it not for your coaching that empowered my wife to step into her power and wisdom, and nail my balls to the wall, I may have remained stagnant in my pathetic self. Our marriage and happiness would continue to suffer for it. I really cannot thank you enough. - Andy S."

Rainbow C.

"When it comes to my life, I truly want it all. Yet I have been afraid to let myself have it. Mai held my feet to the fire and systematically, we are putting all the pieces together."

Jessica & Henrik T.

"Thanks to Mai, this program and the Community!!! We managed to break through our crisis: severe adult ADHD, autism for our son, my own personal mental breakdown, a new born baby girl.... We healed ourselves and our relationship and are now a steady couple ready to take the wedding vows after 13 years, 2 kids and challenging circumstances together."

Christine U.

"At the ♥️ heart of Mai Vu’s program is “Know Yourself” and “Love yourself as is”. Mai infuses her signature program, Loving Your three Ps, and, several other classes where I have felt gently and powerfully guided in the safety of the container she has created. I have been able to get to know myself, love myself and learn many skills I didn’t have before joining Mai. I now feel stronger in myself. I healed things I where I didn’t know healing was possible. I feel loved. I have watched others grow. I can’t really say enough good things about the beautiful and delicious journey that I’ve been on with her."

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Mai Vu shows hardworking divorced moms how to have that great romance, where they are loved, adored, and cherished by their men while raising healthy, well-balanced children and rocking their careers! Mai calls this Hot Life Hot Love. She is the author of The Divorced Mom’s Guide to Dating: How to be Loved, Adored and Cherished, now available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, iBooks, and the Google Store. The first certified Asian Female CoActive coach in the world, Mai Vu, came into the budding coaching world twenty years ago. She has helped over a thousand women live a Hot Life with Hot Love and has an international following of clients who call her aMAIzing.

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